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IP Addresses

One small way to see if the girl you are talking to is lying about her address is to trace her IP address. Below you will find instructions on how to find a girl's IP address. If she is lying, I would advise you to drop her without a reason or reply. (If she gave the address as Kirov and you trace it to Yoshkar-Ola.) You could ask her why she lied about her place of residence, but a scammer will have a reason for this. A real girl wouldn't lie about it in the first place.

One more thing. Some antiscam sites or forums list suspicious IP adresses. You should ignore this. I had this idea 7 years ago, but it will not help you. Let's say a HUGE scammer group uses a dial-up service. Then, this stupid antiscam site (like romancescam.com) lists thjis IP as being suspicious. So, a regular girl, in the same city. who also uses the same dial-up service, happens to get that same IP address that was recorded for the HUGe scammer group. Now, the guy talking to her will go report this and she will be named as a scammer.

A scammer's IP address could be anything, so a real girl will eventually end up with the same IP address. IGNORE sites that list suspicious IP addresses!!! What is important is where you are getting letters from.

How to Find an IP Address

 This is for hotmail and yahoo, but will also work for a few other web-based email servers. Try the options folder or ask the webmaster how to do this. If you find her real city, I might be able to help.

Finding IP address in Yahoo! Mail

  1. First of all log into your Yahoo! mail with your username and password.
  2. Click on Inbox or whichever folder you have stored your mail.
  3. Open the mail.
  4. On the top-right side of the mail page, there is a hyperlink that says Full Headers. Click on it.
  5. If you see Brief Headers and not Full Headers, then ignore step 4, and jump to step 6.
  6. Look at the headers that are now displayed above the message.
  7. Read the Received: headers and search for IP addresses between square brackets like this [ ].
  8. Look at the example below to understand exactly how to do it.
Finding IP address in Hotmail
  • First of all log into your Hotmail with your username and password
  • Click on Inbox or whichever folder you have stored your mail.
  • Open the mail.
  • If you do not see the headers in the mail, click on the Options hyperlink
  • After you are in the Options page, click on the Mail button and then on the Mail Display Settings hyperlink
  • You should see the Message Headers here as
    None Basic Full Advanced
  • Select Full and click on the Ok button.
  • Now go back to the mail.
  • Look at the headers that are now displayed above the message.
  • Read the Received: headers and search for IP addresses between square brackets like this [ ].
  • Look at the example below to understand exactly how to do it.

 Here is what you will find...

Return-path: <alena_cmok@mail.ru>
Received: from mta17.srv.hcvlny.cv.net
 (mta17.srv.hcvlny.cv.net [167.206.5.111]) by mstr4.srv.hcvlny.cv.net
 (iPlanet Messaging Server 5.2 HotFix 1.25 (built
Nov  5 2004 ))
 with ESMTP id <0IC700HD6S9R3Q@mstr4.srv.hcvlny.cv.net> for
 ; Sun, 20 Feb 2005 09:29:52 -0500 (EST)
Received: from aqua.relinfo.ru (ns.mari-el.ru [195.161.208.130])
 by mta17.srv.hcvlny.cv.net
 (iPlanet Messaging Server 5.2 HotFix 1.25 (built
Mar  3 2004 ))
 with ESMTP id <0IC7000M5S9P4V@mta17.srv.hcvlny.cv.net> 
; Sun,
20 Feb 2005 09:29:51 -0500 (EST)
Received: from 36.214.dialup.mari-el.ru (36.214.dialup.mari-el.ru [195.161.214.36])
 by aqua.relinfo.ru (8.12.11/8.12.11) with ESMTP id j1KEPeNQ036650 for
 
; Sun, 20 Feb 2005 17:27:56 +0300 (MSK envelope-from alena_cmok@mail.ru)
Date: Sun, 20 Feb 2005 17:24:48 +0300
From: Alena <alena_cmok@mail.ru>
Subject: Re: Hello
In-reply-to: <004e01c516fb$281033c0$15755143@hfcldbwlwttqne>
To: ****

Reply-to: Alena <alena_cmok@mail.ru>
Message-id: <15143372.20050220172448@mail.ru
MIME-version: 1.0
X-Mailer: The Bat! (v2.10.01) Educational
etc etc etc...

So, what you do is take the last IP from the "RECEIVED FROM" lines. Sometimes there is one, sometimes there are many. In this email header, you can see this IP - 195.161.214.36 - in the last "RECEIVED FROM" line. Sometimes there is an "X-ORIGINATING IP" at he top of the header. But you should always check ALL the IP addresses that you can find until you get used to it.

* Special note. Many Russian servers run through Moscow. So, if you trace a girl's IP and it says she is in Moscow, you necessarily believe it. Check 3 of her emails and get a consensus.

You can check the IP address here - http://www.geobytes.com/IpLocator.htm - it's actually easy. 

And it is awesome, it shows you the city and other interesting info, too. But it often doesn't work, so try this one, too.

http://ws.arin.net/cgi-bin/whois.pl

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